The husband who, upon awakening, recalls resistance at night, gets up differently from the one who can tease his wife about her complaisance J. One way to make physical relations with your husband is by initiating at a time that is unusual for you as a couple. This way, he knows exactly what you want when you get back home. Her actions sink to the level of power-play. In such a situation the husband might easily look at other women who give a more pleasing impression. True love knows that the other person is not without human frailties. Think back on particularly steamy moments or risky behavior your husband enjoyed.
But the single life and sexual abstinence is not the rule, as Paul knows. Notice the qualifications Paul sets down regarding sexual abstinence:. If all sex is evil, then it is evil to enjoy sex in marriage. I am not amazed that the unbelieving world, sex-and self-crazed as it is, finds frustration more than fulfillment in the bedroom.
This tells us more about the ascetics than it does about biblical morality: Later verses will expand upon the benefits a celibate lifestyle can produce. The second dimension of the great commandment is that we should love our neighbor as ourself. Sex, apart from biblical servanthood, is self-centered pleasure seeking.
Sexless Marriage And Affairs: He is her Bridegroom and she is His bride. In- all of this the feelings of husband and wife differ somewhat. No one would deny the importance of satisfying sexual relations. Psalm strongly emphasizes the direct action and work of the Lord as He personally involves Himself in people's lives. Timothy goes on to say: